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A reader asks : I am settled in Dubai for the last 8 years. I have a strange sort of problem, I am attracted towards my sister-in-law, who is years old. She is divorced with a kid and I am married to her younger sister.


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Sorry, but you are being absolutely ridiculous.

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Prior to this month when I was layed off from my state gov't position, I had no trouble performing my duties. I am between jobs and do not have healthcare for myself at the moment, so I can't afford therapy just yet.

What am attracted to my sister in law

Someone I felt comfortable seeing other than my wife. Almost going beyond the call of BIL and into some semi-awkward territory. You will lose your friends too. Why would you risk such a thing. Maybe its just me, but if you claim to love your wife, then surely you should be "obsessed" with HER, and not some other women, least of all your own sister-in-law?

It's time to pull your head out of wherever it's at. This woman is a fantasy in your head and nothing more. I'm at least smart enough to understand I have a "secret" problem that if left alone it will eventually become a public problem for all to see. Basically, I'm attracted and "in lust" over my sister-and-law.

Yes she is my wife's sister, which obviously makes things difficult. Someone who liked me as a brother and friend, and someone who I honestly have more in common with in terms of hobbies and interests. By bluelineAugust 13, in Infidelity. I saw an to her boyfriend when he was away for work. I do have a job that might be promising, but it's still weeks off.

My wife was the first person to think I was "cool" and now we have an adorable daughter. In my mind she was the object of my lust and affection, and of course her body was adding to that lust. My wife can be judgmental and critical more so than I like, which adds to my daily stress. I love my wife very much, but I can't tell about this, or any of my friends. What you have to do is get your head out of the clouds, and do it now. We have a little boy now, he's almost two.

This is when my SIL was dating her boyfriend of 3 years.

You will realize one day that this is just garbage. I was on her laptop one day and her browser window was up Side note, my SIL is very attractive, she had just lost a fair amount of weight after going on an exercise program.

You will emotionally kill an entire family,piit siblings and parents against each other, lose your wife, lose your daughter.

Of course then I was always rejected, friend-zoned, what have you. Sure the feelings would wax and wane. Concentrate on your own family. Anyway don't 'seek her out' when your wife is being critical etc as that's only going to add fuel to the fire.

'i am attracted to my sister-in-law, please help me to come out of it'

For me it manifested in. Can you imagine the betrayal to your wife with her sister?!

It's a messed up situation. I suppose this isn't a helpful comment but I don't understand why you married your wife when feeling so strongly about someone else. Where i go beyond is how jealous i am about her. I don't see how you can force yourself to love someone you don't just because it's what you think you should be doing. As long as your thoughts dwell on someone else, then you won't "get over" her, because your attention isn't on your own family.

At least I know i'm not being looked at as crazy!

I've gone weeks without thinking of her, but then she'll come visit or call me up and it gets my mind working again. I am not obsessed to the point of not being able to function. It's my home life that is sister. I have been for about 4 years now. It is something you can stop. Let that be on your conscience. Break up their family, break up your own family, your child - that's just way too many people YOU will hurt.

I don't think he's planning on trying to hook up with her, he wants to know how to get over his obsession. I think spending more quality time and focus on your own family is the way to go. I seek out my SIL to get away from that. When I catch word my SIL has been intimate with a guy law a jerk it makes me almost vomit That is about attraction I am tonight and this past week. Back inmy then fiancee and I miscarried our first. We were relatively young, and it was a new experience for both of us and a shock to have. What keeps me coming back is how easy we get along.

I won't go into what ifs Well probably nothing would have happened! Granted I am not married to her, so that dynamic is totally different, but at one point we were all living together, we know the most personal things about each other it's family. Where I go beyond is how jealous I am over her, how much I imagine things in my head I've done some searches on here and it seems not many are afflicted by this same issue at least not many people have spoken publicly about it.

And you don't need therapy. I was curious, of course, and opened her inbox.

Sexual attraction to my sister in law

How it started was he looked at pics of her on the internet I thinn you love her, not your wife. Man, it's the same damn feeling! I became obsessed with just being by her.

I hate to tell you this but people have died for less. He loves his wife He says i do LOVE her, as a brother and family. You better get a grip on yourself or this will destroy your entire family. I am afraid I'll be forever depressed with these feelings for my SIL. I do LOVE her, as a brother and as family.

I dearly love my wife, which is why I am posting here rather than speaking of this to her - this would crush her. Provocative photos of her. My wife and I got married a year later. I will leave it at that. I think getting involved with your brother's wife would be a HUGE mistake.

And also, if the marriage is in trouble in any way, then go to marriage counseling to help sort it out. I felt weird It just triggered something in me. You need to limit the amount of time you spend with her. It started about 1 year before my wife and I got married. Don't seek her out at all, but avoid her as much as possible.

How to tell if my sister in law has or had feelings for me and how to me

I do admit the night before my wedding looking back and seeing what I had seen online as a big regret, but alas I am here today no different than I was. But then to lose it??? From then on I noticed her more, hung out with her more and more. I am not trying to fool her or pull the wool over her eyes.

I guess the 'someone else' wasn't available and maybe never would be, and as you said, your wife was the first one to think you're 'cool' and you might not have realized how much your feeling would escalate. That said, if he wants to avoid this getting any further, then he should start to focus on his OWN marriage and his WIFE and his child, instead of lusting over his sister-in-law.

I couldn't imagine my life without her, as she could not without me. I am sure it took a toll on my wife in normal ways.

Just do it! This is my first post here. Every time a guy is interested in her I become very possessive and protective.

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I become distant from my wife and child, depressed. And if you ruin your life over this, that is your choice. This is tantamount to taking a grenade and throwing it in the middle of your family and emotionally slaughtering the whole bunch. I won't go into any sort of backstory about myself except for how it relates to my current situation.