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Some might be bragging about losing virginity to their best friend, girlfriend or boyfriend, or someone above their age. The question we were asked was, whether losing virginity to a prostitute is a good idea or not.
I feel confused and sad that he could treat a woman this way. Photograph: Alamy.
We are all flawed creatures leading the best lives we can, often against considerable odds. I know only too well how hard it is when you are young and your emotions override your ability for rational thought to put sensible distance between the present and the past.
Mariella Frostrup. Dear Mariella Relationships.
Follow her on Twitter mariellaf1. That, together with having to take an STI test, makes me feel very turned off from sex and intimacy.
If you have a dilemma, send a brief to mariella. I understand your sadness that he could treat a woman in this way, but he was an isolated teenager under pressure from a peer. If your relationship is founded on such a tenuous connection that a historical sexual encounter, apparently made under duress and regretted ever since, is reason to call off the affair, then perhaps the take-away from this is that your roots are too unstable to endure.
During the following days he was passive about this, then annoyed and quite rude, which made it seem like a false promise.
My boyfriend lost his virginity to a sex worker, then lied about it. He insisted a condom was used, but I insisted he was tested for STIs, which he agreed to at the time. In youth we leap far too easily to judgment and live in a world where shades of any hue are rarely tolerated.
Or revealed it with no sense of shame over an early dinner date? I then found a service where tests can be ordered online, so we have both been tested and await. Our post-Freudian society is all about expressing our darkest fears, but sometimes leaving territory undisturbed works equally well.
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Hopefully it will simply be a precautionary measure as, apart from a couple of less likely conditions, seven years would be an extremely long time for an entirely symptomless incubation.